It feels sad because one desperately dos not want ones offspring to make the same mistake as I made. I spend a lot of time correcting my sons behaviour. Unfortunately it feel as if it is all in vain. I tell him not to fight and yesterday he ended up in fight. Of course there were all the reasons how it was not his fault. I reminded him how I had told him not to get into a fight. Depiste all this he still got into a fight. Lesson learnt for me. People have to sometimes learn the hard way. There is nothing you can do.