Looking at the adverts in the side panel from Google it would appear that this blog has got Google confused. it is has nothing to do with Toad software or Toad security, In fact the only thing that it has in common with that is the name. Toad was always designed to be a more intimate experience at blogging. Where the use of Pseudo name could allow certain topics to be discussed without having to be too diplomatic. As I came here to night to write I realised the last post was pretty much where it all is at. So I will be focusing bit more on Art in the up and coming posts.

Although it does not feel like that, I am technically a single father. I have sometimes wondered if blogging about such topics on this site fits in with it themes. As art is supposed to represent life than from that perspective these topics do very well here. I am person that i would describe who has a lot of vision. I like to have things in a certain way and I am very good at creating that. Recently though I have struggled with understanding my own father son relationship. In theory it should be easy. Kids are not difficult to understand. The only problem is that we argue a lot of the time. Most of my friends say that it is normal but I wonder if that if so. One thing is for certain if there were two perents it would be a lot easier.

Many people tell themselves they will only be happy when they have achieved some big aim in their life. Like maybe buying a car, taking a holiday to a far away land. While this may make sense. It is limiting your ability to have a good time all the time. Happiness is not dependent upon any person, place, or event. Good things will happen bad things will happen. Your ability to deal with these things is in the very fact that you accept that they are separate from you. Thus freeing yourself leads to happiness….. me thinks.

I was just reading over at shoe money about a blog that won the best affiliate blog. I popped over to take a look at it. Now I am not quite sure why he won, but I do like his blog…and here is why. His blog manages to combine a number of different interest effortless and easily. I have a couple blogs all with a different focus to achieve the same effect. Anyway I have not figured out yet why he won yet, but when I do I will write about it here…

Vivienne Westwood was on a TV chat show on Friday evening. She is probably someone who we have heard a lot about but cannot quite put a picture to the face. As the one of key figures of the punk movement to being recognized today as a top clothes designer. I do not know all that much about clothes so I want even try to talk about what she has done. She did make one very interesting comment though. She said that she never watched TV or listened to the radio. She found that they distracted from here work and sense of well being. I think if one looks at what she makes one can get sense of that. I thought also it was a very interesting comment about life in general.